Was Nella Right Or Wrong To Take Offence At Fred? | Loose Women

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  • @carolinequirke5202
    @carolinequirke5202 Год назад +1278

    Nella is like a child having a major tantrum she did herself absolutely no favours.Fred handled the situation very well .

    • @KaleemAkbar786
      @KaleemAkbar786 Год назад +25

      Axe Nella

    • @bennym5244
      @bennym5244 Год назад +32

      Nella is a gift to the nation. Hopefully finally people will see how this younger generation are simply unable to employ rational thought ahead of their own immediate personal feelings. We saw it in the fall out over Meghan Markle resulting in piers Morgan and Sharon Osbourne both losing their jobs. More so Sharon faced a whole panel of women her colleagues accusing her of being insensitive and raceest towards MM. Sharon merely questioned the validity of MM 's claims and was put in the gibbet cage. The panellists argument being as MM is a person of colour her accusations must be believed. The collective shock of the community supersedes any rational clear minded critical thinking. And low and behold Sharon and piers were both proved correct as strangely Harry moon danced back from the racism allegation of his wife instead blaming the media in front of a very confused royal correspondent. Luckily for some not too many acted through feeling over the juicy smollet situation as the egg would still be running down their collective chins. We are now getting a front row seat to the madness courtesy of this Nella.

    • @dustersinternational221
      @dustersinternational221 Год назад +12

      ​@@bennym5244good written piece. Younger generation insult troll on social media, if not in the real world do not learn skills, social skills. It's not all young people but many are all about me me me ego. This wasn't a case of Fred but all about her projecting onto him. Being rude to him and calling him names. Shouting too! It's vile. She believes she's popular but she isn't in the real world. Fred works with people face to face, in restaurants he's had worse. Bless him what a sweet man ❤

    • @lunatigannie8860
      @lunatigannie8860 Год назад +7

      Nella is a big narc

    • @donaldsinden934
      @donaldsinden934 Год назад +13

      He should have never said sorry, she needs to know she is wrong.

  • @melissawright1979
    @melissawright1979 Год назад +651

    I'm still annoyed that NOBODY stood up for him. She was deliberately trying to belittle him in front of everyone. I'm glad its backfired and i hope she's first to go

    • @TopzeKretz
      @TopzeKretz Год назад +20

      I don't even watch the show but it was all over my feed.
      I couldn't agree more with your statement. Why didn't anyone just take Nells aside and just say 'dude, reassess your situation'
      I also find it weird that on the outside world it's created such a divide between people...in this clip alone I just saw a dude having chit chat/multitasking with a casual comment about how he could be her 'dad' as he is roughly 20 years older. And in response he's disrespectful?!?
      ...I think we're all just very bored...
      Sorry massive rant I apologize lol. Have a good day!:)

    • @mikehudson8884
      @mikehudson8884 Год назад +16

      Exactly what I thought. They all pandered around her..

    • @kimbarrett4179
      @kimbarrett4179 Год назад +10

      She done it make herself look big and she's the Victim poor Fred

    • @dustersinternational221
      @dustersinternational221 Год назад +5

      ​@@mikehudson8884because she used the victim card

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 Год назад +4

      He’s a man, he can stand up for himself. Men are strong

  • @JuiceMyRandomness
    @JuiceMyRandomness Год назад +744

    It’s a saying… “old enough to be your dad”. She is just rude. Talking at him repeating the same thing. So disrespectful.

    • @ritamcleod3993
      @ritamcleod3993 Год назад +38

      What a vile nobody. Fred is nothing but polite and respectful. I feel for him. He must be so confused. He did absolutely nothing wrong. Hope she gets to do all the worst trials then be first to be voted out. She ruins tge programme.

    • @KaleemAkbar786
      @KaleemAkbar786 Год назад +19

      Vote Nella Out

    • @LarryDavid.blochain
      @LarryDavid.blochain Год назад +12

      Even if it wasn’t a saying, just the word father can’t be brought up around her ? Lol

    • @samrhodes3017
      @samrhodes3017 Год назад +14

      She's taken this completely the wrong way, what a vile horrible woman kick her out now.

    • @Matick-
      @Matick- Год назад +11

      It's one of the problems with multi culturalism. Language/sayings are no longer shared between people who live in the same society.

  • @jamesnugent1256
    @jamesnugent1256 Год назад +1092

    She's the bully. She's the problem. No man could react to a woman like that and not get absolutely destroyed for it.

    • @leabeauty837
      @leabeauty837 Год назад +34

      An argument hardly makes someone a bully, calm down. Did she overreact yes, but go look up the meaning of bully.. because it isn’t that.

    • @jamesnugent1256
      @jamesnugent1256 Год назад +79

      @@leabeauty837 to bully is to seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce another. She is most definitely seeking to intimidate Fred and coerce others into not liking Fred. This is literally dictionary definition bullying and if a man acted like this toward a woman they would rightly get castigated for it.

    • @leabeauty837
      @leabeauty837 Год назад +17

      @@jamesnugent1256 You missed out the key aspect that makes bullying;bullying. Habitually. You can’t have one incident and it be called bullying. That’s exactly like saying someone is harassing someone when they’ve only been in contact with that person once. You’re seemingly as dramatic as she is.

    • @abethebabe3835
      @abethebabe3835 Год назад +28

      She is what is now known as a crybully

    • @jamesnugent1256
      @jamesnugent1256 Год назад +15

      @@leabeauty837 do you evidence that she hasn't acted like this before to others? Do you think her behaviour is appropriate?

  • @MichelleLewis-hj3jd
    @MichelleLewis-hj3jd Год назад +524

    As a black woman,the saying he used is commonly used in our culture.
    Nella is an embarrassment, shes just rude and has issues,used this moment to visit her anger onto others,she knows shes wrong,if she doesntshes even more disturbed than we think,clearly she shouldn't be on that show if shes gonna be that triggered by others saying normal things.
    Shes not the first and wont be the last to loose a parent or loved one,doesnt mean you have a right to offend others based on your thoughts and feelings that are misplaced.

    • @bobbybob6597
      @bobbybob6597 Год назад +48

      As a black man, it's strange when people start thier sentance by stating thier race

    • @dannycanning9959
      @dannycanning9959 Год назад

      @@bobbybob6597trust me

    • @kfner23
      @kfner23 Год назад +51

      @@bobbybob6597 Didn't you just do the same?

    • @sarahillman1900
      @sarahillman1900 11 месяцев назад +20

      Nella was just rude, “ don’t little girl me” while being so childish . Totally agreed with Jane.

    • @SuperFUBAR
      @SuperFUBAR 11 месяцев назад +12

      Absolutely! I lost both my parents at 23 & have had many ppl say they're old enough to be my parent! It's a way of showing the age gap, nothing else. There's nothing personal about it but she seriously exaggerated it & even made up the situation it was said in!

  • @deniseblake6214
    @deniseblake6214 Год назад +657

    So she’s managed to show her real colours …. Vile and despicable, whereas Fred has shown grace, respect and considerable patience

    • @mariabrown6926
      @mariabrown6926 Год назад +7

      Fred unfortunately doesn't know how to read a room, either that or he just couldn't care less 😂

    • @fridayscoldone4096
      @fridayscoldone4096 Год назад

      @@mariabrown6926 wake up

    • @danjames4086
      @danjames4086 Год назад +32

      ​@@mariabrown6926
      Erm...they were talking about ages, and Fred used a commonly used British idiom. He read the room fine.
      Unless of course he was expected to read the private room inside her head.

    • @Obullshtter
      @Obullshtter Год назад +4

      ​@@danjames4086fred feels as he tried to make nigel feel the night before.

    • @lunatigannie8860
      @lunatigannie8860 Год назад

      ​@@mariabrown6926ahh another nella 😂😂😂😂😂😂 u come to show ur true colours too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @robertarthur6470
    @robertarthur6470 Год назад +493

    It’s ridiculous of her to get so angry about an innocent comment referring to an age gap. It was rude and unnecessary of her. I’ve gone right off her.

    • @lunatigannie8860
      @lunatigannie8860 Год назад +4

      Its a personality disorder

    • @blankonana
      @blankonana Год назад +3

      She’s clearly sensitive on a topic about her dad. Even the woman in this video said that you also have to look at her background and where she is coming from

    • @lunatigannie8860
      @lunatigannie8860 Год назад +16

      @@blankonana she comes from loony tunes

    • @irishcountrygirl78
      @irishcountrygirl78 Год назад +8

      @@lunatigannie8860 she's diagnosed or are we labelling problematic people now so to allow for horrid behavior? People in the camp are clearly afraid of her and dont call her out. They don't want the wrath they'll receive.

    • @sabuteo407
      @sabuteo407 Год назад +6

      Why was you ever on her? She's a div.

  • @jonirudenski7702
    @jonirudenski7702 Год назад +383

    She was incredibly rude. He meant her no harm, and she blew it way out of proportion! Plus, his apology was sincere when he had nothing to apologize for.

    • @rainbowlady1532
      @rainbowlady1532 Год назад +13

      Exactly, then she adds salt to the wound by saying "I'm never eating anything Fred has cooked, or sitting by him" jeez grow up Nella!
      Edit: Nella and Fred have put aside thier differences and have made up. Nella, while she's still annoying, I kind of like her albeit in very small doses. At first I won't lie I found her quite funny and adorable, then she grated on me.
      But now, hmmm I'm still unsure but she's okay to a point.
      Fred and everyone else - yes including Farage, though I don't agree with everything he says, but he can make valid points at times - are all rather bubbly, funny and interesting.
      While I like Josie Gibson, I did not like how she didn't acknowledge Sam's hard work in the swimming trial (though I'm fairness Nella did stick up for him & showed gratitude).

    • @kaymorrice8141
      @kaymorrice8141 Год назад +4

      It would have been sufficient for Fred to just say “have you finished? ok now get over yourself. Bye”

    • @Jessicakadimax
      @Jessicakadimax 11 месяцев назад

      Yes still has to apologise and he did because he realised she was hurt by his comment and he understood why she got hurt/got offended 🧠 and you don’t

    • @kaymorrice8141
      @kaymorrice8141 11 месяцев назад

      @@Jessicakadimax she’s a blank! No apologies required! She knows that deep down inside!

  • @johnbeagley8162
    @johnbeagley8162 Год назад +443

    No excuse for that behaviour to Fred.
    Who is she ?
    Never heard of her.
    Yes vote her out.

    • @seewhatweesee96
      @seewhatweesee96 Год назад +13

      She’s a social media ‘star’🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @philm4682
      @philm4682 Год назад +16

      She maybe on social media but still have no idea

    • @orlawalsh926
      @orlawalsh926 Год назад +5

      @@seewhatweesee96that makes sense

    • @leabeauty837
      @leabeauty837 Год назад +9

      Does it matter if you heard of her? My 12 year olds hadn’t heard of Nigel Farage. A person in a sixth form class upon hearing Nigel’s name asked if he was a footballer. For children up to maybe late 20s she’s the most famous person in there.

    • @manhole766
      @manhole766 Год назад +7

      Never heard of her.🧐

  • @frenchprovincial9602
    @frenchprovincial9602 Год назад +297

    Just what I expect from Janet. I totally agree with Jane, Fred did nothing wrong.

    • @keeleyford9201
      @keeleyford9201 Год назад +27

      That's true, very Janet. They are very predictable on this programme and always one who's impartial and has no opinion. But I and majority of the nation will.agree with Jane

    • @GGG-sd9ei
      @GGG-sd9ei Год назад +25

      I agree with Jane. Typical Janet!

    • @dustersinternational221
      @dustersinternational221 Год назад +3

      Lol, I was erm who's Janet.. Is it like calling someone a Karen 😂 then looked up... Its a loose women clip. I was only reading the comments. 🤣

    • @GreatestCornholio
      @GreatestCornholio Год назад +13

      Some nice positive racism from her as well, with "the show needs people like her" comment.She is just desperately trying to stay relevant.

    • @JoyfulSaint14
      @JoyfulSaint14 Год назад +1

      ​@@dustersinternational221😂same, I thought the same because of the US with the Karens videos 😅

  • @julieforde6412
    @julieforde6412 Год назад +232

    She was awful to Fred, and he was too much of a gentleman to give her what she deserved. He answered her with so much respect when she just verbally layed into him. I for one want her out now!

    • @shirleybenaim7315
      @shirleybenaim7315 Год назад +15

      It's a saying old enough to be your dad or mum.She is the problem.

    • @Andreaod73
      @Andreaod73 Год назад +2

      Me too !

  • @andyquelch5754
    @andyquelch5754 Год назад +312

    Nella is a child. The Tik Tok generation in full flow.

    • @jonathanshaw8123
      @jonathanshaw8123 Год назад +27

      She is 26 not 16 should be able to understand something said in the figure of speech.

    • @andyquelch5754
      @andyquelch5754 Год назад

      @@Lizziesouth I didn't say she was on TikTok. I said it's the TikTok generation.

    • @mrmoist74
      @mrmoist74 Год назад

      Exactly, a product of her generation and a cardboard cut out of a million others.

    • @kimstockwell721
      @kimstockwell721 Год назад +4

      @@jonathanshaw8123 She has used that figure of speech herself about someone else, she knows what he meant.

    • @Roger-Bacon
      @Roger-Bacon 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Lizziesouthsame thing , full of Weirdos.

  • @ColinsCity
    @ColinsCity Год назад +176

    she is the human embodiment of twitter and this is why people of her generation are dismissed as unhinged and super sensitive.

    • @yyyannuuu
      @yyyannuuu 11 месяцев назад +6

      Reactivity isn’t generation specific, seen it with Gen Xers and Boomers the most but I don’t attribute it as their generational flaw. It’s just a common trait w/ emotional immaturity.

    • @Roger-Bacon
      @Roger-Bacon 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@yyyannuuuyou have just proved @ColinsCitys point

    • @Ella-cz4yl
      @Ella-cz4yl 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Roger-Baconhow? They weren’t being rude or confrontational in their comment at all

  • @paulinebartram7870
    @paulinebartram7870 Год назад +77

    Nella is no celebrity and was very rude to Fred. She’s the one who needs to learn some respect. It seems she expects everyone to kowtow to her wether she is right or wrong. Vote her off before she ruins the whole programme

  • @lone8869
    @lone8869 Год назад +55

    Why did none of the camp mates stand up and say something in his defence?

    • @lilylolly8757
      @lilylolly8757 Год назад +22

      Because none of them wanted to also be on the receiving end of her unreasonable tongue lashing. There is no point arguing with people like her-they just shout louder rather than have a reasonable argument.

    • @missbeaussie
      @missbeaussie 8 месяцев назад

      Because it was a private conversation and he's a grown man capable of handling a discussion.

  • @kayoss2306
    @kayoss2306 Год назад +324

    What a bizzare thing to get offended over...
    Even if you feel offended by something you can express it calmly and come to an understanding. She was so confrontational.

    • @NickSmith-vj6yh
      @NickSmith-vj6yh Год назад +19

      Sadly typical of that generation. There very raison d'etre is just sitting around waiting to be offended. What a nightmare she is.

    • @mariabrown6926
      @mariabrown6926 Год назад +8

      People deal with grief in strange ways sometimes

    • @PaddyGuinness
      @PaddyGuinness Год назад +2

      ​@@mariabrown6926that is not a way to deal with it.. Slatting someone else who said sorry over a conman remark ffs

    • @stephenmurphy2212
      @stephenmurphy2212 Год назад +6

      Agreed. I’m 29 and I’ve had people in their 40s, 50s or even 60s said that kind of thing to me and I don’t find it offensive. Nella is just being a total Karen.

    • @liukin95
      @liukin95 Год назад +7

      ​@@NickSmith-vj6yh Please... I'm 28 and I do not want to be painted with the same brush as people like her!

  • @LifeAtSea50
    @LifeAtSea50 Год назад +76

    The term “Chip on Shoulder” could never be more apt.

    • @lone8869
      @lone8869 Год назад +11

      100%

    • @leabeauty837
      @leabeauty837 Год назад +3

      Well der. She lost both parents very young in a traumatising way and the terms mum & dad clearly touch a raw nerve. She needs therapy.

    • @LifeAtSea50
      @LifeAtSea50 Год назад +8

      @@leabeauty837 not denying her loss for one minute, but when an individual sincerely apologies as Fred did you accept it humbly and do not further rant on like a brat, nobody is perfect, people make mistakes, I believe Fred was genuinely unaware his comment caused hurt and he reiterated this many times.

    • @bajanb
      @bajanb Год назад +8

      ​@@leabeauty837she isn't the only person that have lost parents young. She's a bully and rude. She need to check her attitude. She isn't out on road bullying people!

    • @leabeauty837
      @leabeauty837 Год назад +1

      @@bajanb You don’t know what bullying means.

  • @pierregodeau4286
    @pierregodeau4286 11 месяцев назад +89

    Nella is acting like a professional victim. You know you are living in a privileged society when the worst thing she has to complain about is being oppressed by someone saying they are older than her 😳

  • @Loake878
    @Loake878 Год назад +112

    She wants to be a victim as that’s what society has taught her she should be.

    • @mikehudson8884
      @mikehudson8884 Год назад +10

      Oh YES that is the BEST comment on here!!!!!

    • @PIERREASARVI
      @PIERREASARVI Год назад +9

      Spot on comment

    • @fionakiely3505
      @fionakiely3505 11 месяцев назад +4

      Bingo.

    • @TheConfuddledz
      @TheConfuddledz 11 месяцев назад +4

      Well said that’s exactly what she wants to be … a sad victim

  • @naomicoward4687
    @naomicoward4687 Год назад +132

    She is well out of order, she is so confrontational. A shameful girl who didn’t want to listen to his side.

    • @paulrichards6894
      @paulrichards6894 Год назад +4

      baffled no one took her to one side to point out her abysmal behavior..

    • @skullyz965
      @skullyz965 Год назад +2

      ​@@paulrichards6894it be racist if they did that's why

    • @paulrichards6894
      @paulrichards6894 Год назад +3

      @@skullyz965 saying someone is old enough to be your dad is just a saying........its got nothing to do with race..last year someone asked me if my wife was my daughter i didnt take offense though she keeps reminding me..i am 4 years older than her

  • @carolaburn9374
    @carolaburn9374 Год назад +129

    He was stating a fact not trying to replace her parents! Totally twisted by her

    • @mila71701
      @mila71701 Год назад +7

      Trauma does twist things for people.

    • @mila71701
      @mila71701 Год назад +6

      @empee5796 I genuinely don’t believe he meant anything malicious or even offensive by what he said. I think her reaction was OTT but I do think her visceral reaction is due to the trauma surrounding her father’s death.

    • @bubandlisa
      @bubandlisa Год назад +1

      ​@@mila71701🙄🙄🙄 so using your (logic) everyone whose dad died has the right to get butthurt any tine someone mentioned DAD around you 😂😂😂

    • @mila71701
      @mila71701 Год назад +4

      @@bubandlisa No that’s not what I said or meant at all. You’re talking about logic but didn’t apply it here.

    • @julietwilmshurst1065
      @julietwilmshurst1065 11 месяцев назад +2

      What planet is Janet on???

  • @davidford9333
    @davidford9333 Год назад +61

    How can anyone defend Nella? She reacted maliciously and disgustingly to a completely innocent comment.

  • @Andreaod73
    @Andreaod73 Год назад +102

    Totally agree with Jane. I can’t stand Nella after her reaction, it was totally over the top! Saying she’s never going to talk to him again and you keep to your side of the camp etc 🙄I will vote her out, I usually agree with you Janet, but not this time !

  • @ollie5464
    @ollie5464 Год назад +112

    Let’s be Frank, Nella is kinda vile. Her behaviour echoes Roxanne Pallett, gaslighting Fred big time.

    • @BulldogDetective
      @BulldogDetective 11 месяцев назад +1

      Was thinking the exact same thing!!

    • @dinaworkman306
      @dinaworkman306 11 месяцев назад +1

      And that woman that was ruse to lady hussey

  • @mikehudson8884
    @mikehudson8884 Год назад +86

    I'm no fan of Fred but he is a gentleman.......What a self obsessed vile woman. Totally cringeworthy how they all obsesswed around her afterwards...Urghhhh... She knew exactly what she was doing...All about the drama and attention!!!

    • @crazycatpetera1404
      @crazycatpetera1404 Год назад +5

      Why are you not a fan of Fred? 😂 I can’t see why anybody would dislike him haha. I completely agree with your other point though, the Hurd mentality demonstrates a greater issue in society.. instead of going straight to Fred and getting the context, all the girls automatically sympathised with her and cuddled her like an injured baby deer. If one of the other girls held her accountable and said “Nella, I appreciate you’re sensitive about it but he’s apologised sincerely, it was an innocent remark and dragging it out and being rude to him is just petty and bratty” then she wouldn’t be so entitled.

    • @mikehudson8884
      @mikehudson8884 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@crazycatpetera1404 Yes I 100 per cent agree...the scenario you describe SHOULD have ensued but not one of them did. Just goes to show how obsequious and sycophatic people can be today.....

    • @Upndouin
      @Upndouin 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@crazycatpetera1404maybe not a fan did not mean Mike diskiles Fred. I also fond it hard for people to hate on him, he’s such a gentleman and caring.

    • @hmu05366
      @hmu05366 11 месяцев назад

      @@mikehudson8884it’s just falseness and people being scared of being cancelled. Everyone just lies and nobody says what they think. It’s a pile of trash

  • @bajanb
    @bajanb Год назад +45

    She's wrong! She thinks she's out on road talking rude to people! Urgh. Hope she gets voted out ASAP!

  • @lilylolly8757
    @lilylolly8757 Год назад +139

    How ridiculous. It could be classed as a patronising comment if they had been having a disagreement about something and he said it as a way of belittling her side of the argument. But it wasn’t that! He was talking about his own eyesight and needing glasses, and then he made the common comment of ‘I am old enough to be your dad’ as a joke when she said 51 isn’t old. She absolutely made a fuss out of nothing and has made the camp awkward for zero reason. She has really shot herself in the foot there (oh look-another common saying. I do hope I haven’t offended anyone who has shot themselves in the foot!).

    • @Andreaod73
      @Andreaod73 Год назад +7

      😂😂 that gun comment really made me laugh. Her reaction was way over the top and I’m voting her out now for sure !

    • @wewhofly
      @wewhofly Год назад +2

      and she got to be the primary figure the media are talking about now. Miles and miles and miles and miles of publicity. She'll eventually apologise for over-reacting and reap the benefits of being known by people who never even watch the show.....me being one of them. I didn't have a clue who see was and I don't watch a second of the show. Yet here I am. Her work is partially done. Centre of attention.... with a back story.

    • @vicsdunleavy21
      @vicsdunleavy21 Год назад

      I do think it was an overreaction 100% agreed -BUT I do actually think that he was coming from a place of minor annoyance when he made the dad comment as well and he sort of intended to put her in her place by pointing to their age gap. I think he was slightly annoyed that she couldn’t understand the deterioration of his vision and it was a slightly backhanded retort. Nella has of course overreacted in a major way though

    • @pinkbeatle2012
      @pinkbeatle2012 Год назад +1

      shooting people in the foot that's awful 😂😂😂

  • @lindathomas5500
    @lindathomas5500 11 месяцев назад +22

    This is a PRIME example of why society is so messed up! Making excuses for someone’s actions and behaviour literally allows it. Stop making excuses for it!! This is exactly why our youth have become so sensitive. Life is HARD, and a good chunk of it will have encounters where your feelings get hurt! Intentionally and unintentionally.. that will always be out of your control, but how you deal with it…. That’s on you!
    She behaved appallingly, end of!

  • @tempusfugit9796
    @tempusfugit9796 Год назад +51

    She'll be voted out first, then She'll go on social media and see the hate. Her so called career is over.

    • @amiekay3359
      @amiekay3359 Год назад +2

      She doesn’t have a so called career, she has a full blown career, her career is far from over

    • @lancekirkaldy8130
      @lancekirkaldy8130 Год назад +3

      @@amiekay3359no it’s over now. Look at others who have done similar- she’s killed her career

    • @tempusfugit9796
      @tempusfugit9796 Год назад

      @amiekay3359 yeah right!! 🤣🤣

    • @mrmoist74
      @mrmoist74 Год назад +1

      ​@@amiekay3359maybe look up the definition of career 😂

    • @emlh5423
      @emlh5423 Год назад

      guaranteed she makes more than you from her so called 'career'@@mrmoist74

  • @jackiekinner3826
    @jackiekinner3826 Год назад +17

    Bet he’s f****ing glad he ain’t your Dad.

    • @dav01kar
      @dav01kar Год назад +3

      lol

    • @amroge8703
      @amroge8703 21 день назад

      Thank you for self censoring 🙏

  • @seangreenwood8331
    @seangreenwood8331 Год назад +41

    respect to Fred for keeping calm,cant believe the others said nothing to defend him,just shows these so called celebs for what they really are

    • @opallunar
      @opallunar 11 месяцев назад

      I think Nick reassured him that it was nothing when Fred came down to one of the ponds and met him there after Fred apologised to Nella. But that was it no one defended him, i felt for Fred in that moment. All the women cozyied around Nella though.

  • @julietpiris3832
    @julietpiris3832 Год назад +38

    She deliberately misinterpreted what he said. He was referring to the age difference.
    He explained....She didn't listen.
    He genuinely apologised...She wldnt listen.
    She should hv graciously accepted his apology.
    She's the disrespectful one. Downright rude.

  • @Bertie22222
    @Bertie22222 Год назад +96

    Nella approaches every conversation from a position of ignorance.

    • @desres2281
      @desres2281 11 месяцев назад +2

      She's milking her 15 minutes of fame! 💰💰💰

    • @theozzy4717
      @theozzy4717 11 месяцев назад +1

      And victimhood

  • @maryjones4029
    @maryjones4029 11 месяцев назад +14

    I think Nella's behaviour was self-centred and indicates a lack of empathy. After Fred explained what he meant and apologised she should have let it go. She never considered the emotional impact it may have on Fred to start ignoring him, then accuse him of hurting her and then not to accept his apology. She then went on to garner the support of others and treat him as an 'outsider'. People can struggle emotionally just by being in the I'm a celeb jungle, and to have to live among someone who is ignoring you could lead to a feeling of isolation. But she showed no concern that her behaviour could negatively impact on his mental well-being.

  • @maddiejung974
    @maddiejung974 Год назад +45

    I could maybe understand in the moment her getting upset and then apologizing to fred later but the fact she kept the grudge until the next morning and refused to acknowledge him is psychotic behaviour, she clearly wanted to make him the villain.

  • @clairelaffar2859
    @clairelaffar2859 Год назад +9

    My wonderful Dad died 5 months ago and I didn't find what Fred said offensive at all.

  • @barrywebber100
    @barrywebber100 Год назад +74

    Fred is a wonderful person and would never knowingly upset anyone.
    Nella was completely out of order with her projections about her deceased father.
    What Fred said was innocuous and just reflected on their age difference.

    • @mila71701
      @mila71701 Год назад +2

      How do you know he’s a wonderful person & everything else you mentioned? Do you know him personally?

    • @mariabrown6926
      @mariabrown6926 Год назад +2

      Do you know Fred in real life?😂

    • @barrywebber100
      @barrywebber100 Год назад +2

      That's the basis of celebrity isn't it?
      We feel that we know "celebrities" on the basis of TV clips.
      On that basis I believe Fred to be a wonderful person! 🙂
      For instance his show with Gordon Ramsay and Gino D'Acampo, those two behave like idiots and Fred tries to moderate their stupidity! 😂

  • @henners88
    @henners88 Год назад +30

    She was aggressive with a very controlling and abusive tone, not a nice girl and was clearly trying her hardest to be offended. Hopefully she’ll be voted out and back into obscurity, we don’t want to watch this type of person.

    • @dustersinternational221
      @dustersinternational221 Год назад +2

      💯 True, Such aggressive behaviour, wow. So rude. This is the "it's all about me show". 😮 Well we know how this will go...

  • @jibbyjabs
    @jibbyjabs Год назад +38

    Nella is rough. She's going to keep getting voted info trials if she doesn't start being a team player

  • @michealjames5459
    @michealjames5459 11 месяцев назад +9

    What's sad is Fred HAD to apologize and he is not in the wrong here

  • @orlawalsh926
    @orlawalsh926 Год назад +8

    Life isnt all about you, thats what social media stars" need to realise .

  • @roblb95
    @roblb95 Год назад +15

    I'm sorry but Janet is just as delusional as Nella... how can you sit there and defend her whilst also saying Fred was being patronising? I've never liked Janet, she's always had such a skewed perspective on things

    • @marypettyfer4640
      @marypettyfer4640 11 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely agree 👍 👏

    • @Hey-yk1en
      @Hey-yk1en 10 месяцев назад

      I think they always have to have one panellist who has to offer an opposing view so they can debate.

  • @joannecrofts3794
    @joannecrofts3794 Год назад +10

    I lost my Dad 5 years ago and my mum passed away very unexpectedly 7 weeks ago and it wouldn't have offended me. She is the bully.

    • @angelagardner5230
      @angelagardner5230 11 месяцев назад

      so sorry joanne

    • @soniiabaybee
      @soniiabaybee 11 месяцев назад

      Just because it wouldn’t offend you doesn’t mean you’re Nella Rose, and it clearly offended her, theyre not eating properly, in the heat, doing horrible tasks .. clearly she felt patronised.

  • @ClaireL77777
    @ClaireL77777 Год назад +16

    How was Fred patronising? If he was not careful with his response, he would have been called something else.......have a guess.......!!!!

    • @gill9331
      @gill9331 Год назад +6

      yep just waiting for her to play that one🤨

    • @maryduffy2036
      @maryduffy2036 Год назад +3

      Give it time

    • @ClaireL77777
      @ClaireL77777 Год назад

      I've just another good point though, that may be she was being that way with Fred due his treatment of Nigel the day before. So that's worth considering too as they do seem to get on. Time will tell......

    • @TheRetroManRandySavage
      @TheRetroManRandySavage 11 месяцев назад

      Trying to bait him into a trap.

  • @tracyjacob7091
    @tracyjacob7091 Год назад +58

    Hope she isn't exempt from tomorrow's trial, because I be voting for her to do it

    • @hbutterfly1767
      @hbutterfly1767 Год назад +1

      Noo that’s giving her what she wants!! More air time 😮

    • @myrahouse2368
      @myrahouse2368 Год назад

      Nah keep her in … she’s showing who she really is!

    • @dorazack-williams1548
      @dorazack-williams1548 11 месяцев назад

      Takes one to know one. 😮

  • @justinbarber4567
    @justinbarber4567 Год назад +11

    She’s done. Career over and will only be remembered for this.

  • @Luke-m4c1s
    @Luke-m4c1s Год назад +43

    How the older lady can say he was patronising is beyond me, Fred was holding a sharp knife, cutting up food in the dark ? His full concentration was on the task in hand, not her, you can tell he didn’t give her 100% because he’s a trained chef and knows the dangers in holding a knife, I don’t even watch I’m a celeb and I’m gunna vote her out 😂

    • @drystkrab269
      @drystkrab269 11 месяцев назад +1

      Men talking to women whatsoever is patronizing, hence why Jane didn't explain why, she just labeled him so. She even brought up Nella's background which is totally irrelevant and doesn't explain why Nella blew up like that.

    • @jb9433
      @jb9433 11 месяцев назад +3

      The world would be a lot better place without people like Janet Street-Porter.

    • @angelagardner5230
      @angelagardner5230 11 месяцев назад

      yes@@jb9433

    • @kougerat5388
      @kougerat5388 11 месяцев назад

      Yep and Nella for that matter they are nothing more that trouble makers @@jb9433

  • @philm4682
    @philm4682 Год назад +12

    Nella was totally wrong as all Fred said he could be her dad because he is old enough to be her dad

  • @michaelmaxwell6445
    @michaelmaxwell6445 Год назад +10

    She was out of order, Fred meant nothing by it, it’s just a saying, I’m sick of these RUclipsrs thinking they are celebrities,

  • @John_Bradbury
    @John_Bradbury Год назад +26

    She reminded me of Catherine Tate's character Lauren Cooper. He was stating an obvious fact that a man in his fifties is old enough to be the father of someone in their twenties. How can you take offence at that? Get her out of there.

    • @lone8869
      @lone8869 Год назад +1

      Loved Lauren. Need her back. 😂

  • @maryduffy2036
    @maryduffy2036 Год назад +35

    She took offence at an innocent saying. COMPLETELY WENT OVER HER HEAD. Sick of these get offended at everything generation 😒. Hope she's voted out 1st . Plus I thought this was a celebrity show, who is she

    • @John-w9t3r
      @John-w9t3r Год назад +3

      Oh fgs it’s a saying I’m old enough to be your dad. Ridiculous

    • @John-w9t3r
      @John-w9t3r Год назад +2

      This is very similar to what happened on big brother between Roxanne and Ryan. If this had been the other way around he would have been chucked out

  • @rheaxX
    @rheaxX Год назад +38

    She was horrible the way she spoke to Fred, it was disgusting, disrespectful and so immature. Talking under her breath like he wasn't there when he was asking if she wanted any food. Gross behavior

    • @dustersinternational221
      @dustersinternational221 Год назад +4

      And she probably has no idea who Fred is. Fred can handle her 😂 he has Gordon as a mate ❤ Fred is so sensitive and it hurt me the way she spoke to him. Vile and rude. Shouty name calling drama ego queen 😮

  • @LT-1574
    @LT-1574 Год назад +19

    Janet is the queen of contradicting herself. There's no defence for Nella's behaviour.

  • @lindaconstantine1844
    @lindaconstantine1844 Год назад +18

    What is her problem? He never meant anything overreact or what you can see now she going create so much bad feeling

  • @LallyPoppy123
    @LallyPoppy123 Год назад +15

    This is definitely giving me CBB punchgate scandal vibes. She's Roxanne and He's Ryan. This is my opinion by the way so trolls don't slam me. I'm team Fred all the way. Fred is a gentleman end of story!!

  • @natalielouisereszkowski6848
    @natalielouisereszkowski6848 Год назад +10

    Definitely not! Fred didn't say anything rude or offensive. It's a saying and she's twisted it to cause drama and unnecessary tension. Good for her starving herself and acting like a spoilt brat. Hope she's first to leave. Buh bye Nella 👋

  • @sarahserra1630
    @sarahserra1630 Год назад +72

    Classic example of someone who hasn’t dealt with trauma and is projecting it on others

    • @SmcdMcd-d2k
      @SmcdMcd-d2k Год назад +4

      That’s not even not dealing with trauma it’s just been rude

    • @emlh5423
      @emlh5423 Год назад +4

      yup, it was an emotional reaction to the pain she's feeling from losing her parents. A large portion of the British public will never be able to empathise. Wonder why eh?

    • @SmcdMcd-d2k
      @SmcdMcd-d2k Год назад

      @@emlh5423 it wasn’t emotional . It was rude .

    • @BlueInk912
      @BlueInk912 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes, losing parents can be difficult. But what is the *real* story?
      She seems to be milking it from all angles . Mother died 2016.
      "her mother had long illness, mother, brother & her" the 3 musketeers ". Lost her council flat after mothers death, (yet has funds for Uni) had to couch-surf - no where to go during holidays, family disowned her?(yet, says her family was amused /laughed when they heard she going onto I'm a Celebrity... Blah blah) Where was her Dad? Untill he died , 2020.
      I call all of it BS. Good luck to all who watch 'reality shows'.

    • @antonyatkins6962
      @antonyatkins6962 11 месяцев назад

      ​@emlh5423 are you trying to say we won't lose both our parents, so won't understand? Expand please

  • @remoanersrknts6736
    @remoanersrknts6736 11 месяцев назад +28

    She will take offence at everything just to draw more attention to herself! 🤮

  • @giddeo
    @giddeo Год назад +32

    I lost my Dad at 19, a long time ago now, so I understand what it feels like four years into the grieving and you are hurt and angry and that does come out in unusual ways. That said I met quite a lot of people who used a similar type of grief as a weapon, whether it was belittling the grief of others for not being on the same scale or just using it to justify their irrational behaviour. She had a night to sit on this, he apologised. I think it's a shame that she couldn't see it for the comment it was, because it makes her look dangerous. This is someone you have to be so careful around because if those cameras are not on and she accuses you of something extreme like that there is no defence waiting. Fred is lucky anybody saw his comment because if they hadn't all they would hear is that he insulted her dead parents. Her actions belittle those who deal with grief quietly. It's not about what happens to you in life, it's how you handle it. She needs to learn that the easy way, or life will teach her the hard way.

    • @hopebgood
      @hopebgood Год назад +5

      I love it when I read a genuinely sensible comment on YT. A breath of fresh air. 😀

    • @lucyw.7597
      @lucyw.7597 Год назад +5

      She's used the same expression herself. She wasnt offended, she wasnt grief stricken, she just wasnt getting enough attention. Please dont make excuses for such deliberately nasty behaviour,.It was indefensible.

    • @dustersinternational221
      @dustersinternational221 Год назад +3

      ​@@lucyw.7597true as they are psychological assessed beforehand. She was projecting, name calling, rude. Shouting. Then back stabbing and twisting the narrative. Thankfully camera s were filming this. Her poor social skills and Ego will be challenging to the team ❤ and that diet... Oh no sugar!!

    • @emlh5423
      @emlh5423 Год назад +2

      Disgusting comment, trying to frame grief as someone dangerous.

    • @opallunar
      @opallunar 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@dustersinternational221she comes across as someone who can mask a personality disorder well.

  • @jasonwilson-nw5pe
    @jasonwilson-nw5pe Год назад +10

    Janet the one who kept quiet about Jimmy saville trying to defend the indefensible.

    • @kerrieedge852
      @kerrieedge852 Год назад +5

      Exactly Janet come on we don't need people like her at all this is what's wrong with the world people taking offence to everything

  • @liukin95
    @liukin95 Год назад +30

    I see why Janet wanted to bring up Nella's background story in this but that's still not an excuse for Nella to behave the way she did. I'm 28 and my dad died last year, I would never have taken offence to what Fred said. Nella was just looking for more airtime and she got it, at Fred's expense!

    • @Poeticfloetic
      @Poeticfloetic 11 месяцев назад +1

      She has no parents. It's not about you love.

  • @gillianmilne8364
    @gillianmilne8364 Год назад +24

    Clearly, Nala has triggers which she projected onto Fred. His comment to me was innocent.

  • @memyselfmartini2328
    @memyselfmartini2328 11 месяцев назад +11

    5:08 so true! I'm glad it was filmed too, because Nella could've turned Fred into a villain but we've all seen what was said and it was blown out of proportion.

  • @Emsie76
    @Emsie76 Год назад +10

    Nella said “my dad was much older than you” so she definitely KNEW how it was intended.
    After reading her comment section on her channel, I wouldn’t want to be on the receiving end of that. Some are downright nasty.

  • @trishchester5796
    @trishchester5796 Год назад +8

    I don't think younger people these days understand "figures of speech" 🤨

  • @ebonyeyes1986
    @ebonyeyes1986 Год назад +16

    Itv sticking up for her is sick. She's doing it for air time nothing else

  • @chrish7975
    @chrish7975 Год назад +20

    Janet Street Porter needs to stop thinking she's a 20 year old woke student and start thinking like an adult.. if that's at all possible. If this woman is going to take offence to an everyday turn of phrase like 'I'm old enough to be your dad'.. she's going to have a very unpleasant life on this earth.. we all lose family and parents, she uses it as an excuse for some sort of elite privilege to demand respect. A little education is a dangerous thing.

    • @sparkandflame
      @sparkandflame Год назад +2

      Well said! My thoughts exactly

    • @desres2281
      @desres2281 11 месяцев назад

      Can't believe Janet said what she did. 😏

    • @foksmashdoor2272
      @foksmashdoor2272 11 месяцев назад +1

      Janet acting like a white saviour to defend someone incredibly rude

  • @klee1506
    @klee1506 11 месяцев назад +5

    Bless that red haired lady she’s the most empathetic of all of them. We can empathize without condoning behavior.

  • @joanneturner4674
    @joanneturner4674 Год назад +6

    She is showing her true colours that she has no respect for Fred. She needs to grow up. Vote out soon

  • @KathrynFairchild-e2s
    @KathrynFairchild-e2s Год назад +21

    I think Nella is acting like a hysterical little girl and was ridiculously rude to Fred. Its not his fault that her parents are dead!!

  • @theboxingboy7422
    @theboxingboy7422 Год назад +9

    Even though i dont know why she was so upset from that comment and this is coming from someone who has also lost both my parents by the age of 25 theres better ways to address the situation then to be immature like she was there.. nothing fred said was malicious towards her for her to spark the reaction she did.. if things like that are going to trigger you like that then you should not be on a national tv reality show because shes made herself look totally ridiculous

  • @Cath1027
    @Cath1027 Год назад +8

    Her behaviour was the privileged social media fools think they are above the rest of us. Janet, her parents died 4 years apart not months. She makes controversial videos in a seductive manner calling other men daddy. She’s out for drama to get airtime. The majority of the public are trending complaining about her attitude.

  • @marylou3601
    @marylou3601 Год назад +26

    “Rude & entitled” she needs to grow up

  • @victoriahelme2686
    @victoriahelme2686 Год назад +31

    Nella needs to grow up. Poor Fred. I felt uncomfortable too.

    • @iohnxxxx
      @iohnxxxx Год назад

      I trust u mean mentally and not physically 😮

  • @kathleennye262
    @kathleennye262 Год назад +8

    She’s so wrong to take offence…Fred was being kind to her..

  • @alisonriley763
    @alisonriley763 Год назад +14

    That's what it's come to!! You can't even breathe in this day and age, without offending somebody!!

  • @elainekent3551
    @elainekent3551 Год назад +15

    Get her out !!!

  • @Stickdeep
    @Stickdeep Год назад +7

    It is sad to see generations on display in this , Fred tries and goes to apologize (let's be honest , he had no need to, but he tries) and Nella is like this is my position, and I don't care about anything else

  • @britturk123
    @britturk123 Год назад +9

    No one with intelligence can understand why she became so enraged.

  • @nickfilleul3463
    @nickfilleul3463 Год назад +15

    For Nella to react that way suggests a predetermined plan on her part to find a moment in the show as early on as possible to take offence, make a scene and gain media interest. She misjudged it and simply jumped on the wrong conversational exchange to put her plan into effect. No doubt she will now be looking for other ways to get noticed, possibly targeting Nigel as an easy person to score points off.

  • @carldyke7344
    @carldyke7344 Год назад +8

    Oh trust Janet to come out with that diatribe. Fred was not patronising at all !!!! He purely made an innocent comment and because Nella is from an entitled, offended, woke generation- she wanted to take offence. No doubt to try and rake in more subscribers to her channels. I hope it backfires on her. She has a lot of growing up to do and actually deal with the real world instead of acting like Catherine Tate's character Lauren !

  • @mamadell5723
    @mamadell5723 Год назад +3

    It's another person screaming victim she's what's wrong with life at the moment. She needs to grow up

  • @sadsack8319
    @sadsack8319 Год назад +8

    Fred wouldn't have taken offence if Nella said that he was old enough to be her Dad.

    • @emlh5423
      @emlh5423 Год назад

      Emotional maturity is the difference. She overrated, wouldn't expect a grown man in his 50s, with much more life experience and a family, to react the same was a young girl in her 20s..think about it. She needs counselling 100% as she is obviously still grieving massively.

    • @sadsack8319
      @sadsack8319 Год назад +1

      @emlh5423 That's my point. Think about it yourself. I wouldn't expect a 26 year old to react in this way either. Concentrate on the words.

  • @stevenhowe6677
    @stevenhowe6677 11 месяцев назад +2

    It's called Narcissism, she is just looking for any excuse to be offended or to 'play the victim'

  • @jakobdavies6129
    @jakobdavies6129 11 месяцев назад +3

    Nella deserves to be put in every trial

  • @bridgeenskudayski1398
    @bridgeenskudayski1398 Год назад +15

    She was having a big very rude moment

  • @nickywilks7928
    @nickywilks7928 Год назад +14

    Come in Janet....don't be so naive.

  • @eggtimer9693
    @eggtimer9693 Год назад +12

    When she did her trial with Nigel,she wanted all the support from him and more..I didn’t see any support for Nigel being returned.
    I hope a time comes where she desperately needs Fred’s help.
    She needs to start living in the real world.

  • @kirwinroach7089
    @kirwinroach7089 11 месяцев назад +6

    Nella is the type of person who has her own opinion on a subject matter and will not listen to anyone who disagrees or challenges her opinion. All she could think of was negativity when Fred made the comments which were only throw away comments that were never meant to cause any harm. I think it will be very difficult to change her mind set, but hopefully as she gets older she'll mature in her thinking.

  • @JayneCooper-r8f
    @JayneCooper-r8f 11 месяцев назад +5

    Wow I’m shocked at Janet !!! I thought she was better than this !

  • @panimengropoints9333
    @panimengropoints9333 Год назад +8

    Janet has obviously had a word from 'Nella's people' to spout her defence and tell people to not vote her out. Nella has also been quickly given extra screen time. It's all about how much money managers throwing at the producers for their 'celebrity'.

    • @Menooy22
      @Menooy22 Год назад

      She's bringing drama. Its reality TV.

  • @grndouwn7338
    @grndouwn7338 Год назад +18

    don't really get her offence at all but she's clearly read the whole situation wrong, and you can understand that with someone grieving publicly

  • @Fletch_18
    @Fletch_18 Год назад +13

    she acted very immaturely, Never even heard of her.

  • @JayneCooper-r8f
    @JayneCooper-r8f 11 месяцев назад +19

    I have second hand embarrassment for her ! I doubt she will even cringe when watching this back ! She’s too far gone and it’s sad !!!

    • @Poeticfloetic
      @Poeticfloetic 11 месяцев назад

      She is usually humble so watching it back I believe she will cringe. A lot of people commenting met her on this show. I have watched her for years.

    • @JayneCooper-r8f
      @JayneCooper-r8f 11 месяцев назад

      @@Poeticfloetic I think I seen her hosting catfish with a guy ?

  • @propennYT
    @propennYT Год назад +3

    I see no scenario in my head where she comes out as the victim in his argument

  • @TheCrocWearingCraftsman
    @TheCrocWearingCraftsman Год назад +9

    When did he actually bring up her dad though, she’s so used to looking for drama surely, literally just said he could be her dad due to the age gap

  • @andrewrichards4815
    @andrewrichards4815 Год назад +8

    Kick her out. Every1 vote her out. Fred is a great person

  • @gill9331
    @gill9331 Год назад +8

    nella was fake and annoying from the start shes over doing it and coming across very fake loud and over reacting ,,,shes trying to stir up trouble for no reason at all because after all that still gets her air time....YAWN!!,,,,,,Hopefully she gets voted out then i will tune in to the show again.......I'm hoping she dosen't play the race card and stir up hate.,,but iv got a sneaky feeling it wont be long🙄

  • @noodlesmer5097
    @noodlesmer5097 Год назад +20

    There is no defence for Nella's disrespectful attitude and utter rudeness towards Fred. She obviously needs psychological help to deal with her grief. But if she wants to make her parents proud, as she has previously posted, then she shouldn't behave like a spoilt brat! Her parents must be turning in their graves at the the disrespect she showed towards Fred who is double her age. Anyone who defends Nella on her behaviour is a lunatic!

  • @donnaflicker5743
    @donnaflicker5743 Год назад +26

    Nella needs to be voted for every trial

    • @camilla5195
      @camilla5195 Год назад +4

      Russian roulette with 6 bullets

    • @kimstockwell721
      @kimstockwell721 Год назад +2

      No, she doesn't deserve the air time. Really liked her at the start but she's shown her true colours .

    • @Straykids_Stay_Felix2000
      @Straykids_Stay_Felix2000 Год назад

      No don't vote her for trials cause then nobody would eat 😊

    • @emlh5423
      @emlh5423 Год назад +1

      yes vote her, love seeing in her trials and on the screen, the outrage by the British public is as over the top as her reaction to the situation, so it's even and love seeing her on TV